Ewe, ooninawa kunye noodadewabo abazalani kwaphela, ngoko ayinakugqalwa njengento embi okanye engafanelekanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umfana omdala kunye nentombazana, ngaphandle kwamaqabane aqhelekileyo ngokwesondo kwaye phantse yonke imihla ejikeleze enye kwenye, ngequbuliso waziva enomdla kwinqanaba lezesondo omnye komnye. Ukuqwalasela ukuba intombazana iyayithanda (umfana ngoko akukho mbuzo), ndicinga ukuba baya kuqhubeka beqhuba olu hlobo lwento ngamaxesha.
Wayecinga ntoni lo mama xa ehamba endlini enganxibanga panty? Ngoko inja yanuka into efunwa yinjakazi. Uthe xa enyusa umbhinqo wakhe, akabinanto yokuthetha. Kwaye waphakama waza womelela xa watshiza amadlozi akhe ebusweni bakhe bonke!